Reverend Debra McGuire
As of July 1, we will have been partners here at Bethany for six months! I am thoroughly enjoying being your Transitional Pastor. Thank you for my beautiful office, for laughing at my jokes, for welcoming me with open arms, for letting me comfort you and work with you and walk with you, and for helping me learn how to be your pastor.
On Jan. 31, 2020 The United States government imposed a two-week federal quarantine on 195 people who were evacuated from Wuhan, China, to a California military base. Little did we know what would happen in the next months. Today marks 13 weeks since our first shelter in place order. It’s difficult to look back over the past 13 weeks and take it all in. There have been so many challenges and we have risen to them all. From having Holy Week on zoom, and services for Easter on Facebook live (I’m not a morning person, but a pandemic is a crazy way to get out of having to do a 6am service!), to the connections we have been maintaining with each other in various ways. I am really proud of us for the tenacity we have, and the strong spirit of love with which we hold one another. We have found ways to step in and help others by giving blood, cooking meals, continuing the work with the San Bruno Shelter, running errands for our neighbors and reaching out to those who might be isolated. We are connecting through comments on Facebook during our live services on Sunday mornings. We are connecting through the zoom prayer service on Wednesdays at 6:30. We are connecting on my Patio. We are connecting through individual conversations on zoom or on the phone, and a few safe in person visits. Our deacons are keeping on top of each parishioner and helping us meet their needs. Our committee personnel are helping to keep our worship, our finances, our grounds work and cleaning, safe and up to date.
Roberta, well, Roberta just keeps us all in line!
Afer five weeks of Job, we will begin looking at 2 Corinthians for five weeks beginning July 12th. I hope to follow that with a study of the Lord’s Prayer through August and into early September. We still do not have a forecasted date for continuing in person Sunday morning services. The session will look at this issue again when we meet on July 21st. We will always be focused on safety. For now we will continue to offer our Facebook live services at 10:00 on Sundays.
I will be on vacation from July 14th – July 20th. Please continue to call the church office with any needs you may have, or contact your deacon. There will not be Facebook live on Tuesday or Friday, or a Wednesday zoom prayer service that week.
Blessing to you all, as we find ways to engage in the important work of these days,
Happy June, Bethany Family!
I just read a quote by John Kabat-Zinn that says, “We take care of the future best by taking care of the present now.”
I find that a perfect way to describe what we have been doing for the past 10 weeks. Every change in behavior, every new way of looking at things, every struggle to overcome new challenge after new challenge, have been ways of taking care of that present day. And this one, and this one. By taking care of the present each day as we have been, we are taking care of our future. Every change we make in order to be safe is an effort on behalf of the future. We need to focus our energy on staying safe ourselves, protecting others by doing our part, helping others where we can and taking care of our own mental health, all while trying to get groceries, pay bills, work, take care of health issues, be with our families, and carry on with celebrations where possible. I have been able to visit safely with a few members, and it warms my heart to hear of your hopes and worries. I have met a few people who need to stay home, and I thank you for your brave hospitality as we met in safe ways. I know that if we lead with love and prayer our hearts will tell us how to be. In Christ we pray for our struggles, our anxieties, our friends, those who need us who are too far away to reach in person, those who are ill, those who are handling some tragic events in their lives and those who are lost. We also offer prayers of thanks for the joys we are able to notice, of gratefulness for what we do have, and of love for all the ways we are loved and comforted.
The last Sunday in May is Pentecost Sunday. This is the day when the church year celebrates the coming of the Holy Spirit. For the next 25 weeks, we will walk with the historical church through many biblical stories and settings, all as reminders of the work of the Spirit. This year, like no other, we need to be reminded of exactly what we were given when we received the Holy Spirit. As promised during the last day of the Resurrected Jesus we have received the Spirit of Truth. We received the Advocate, Comforter, Counselor and Helper that Jesus promised us. This advocate brings the bible into our everyday lives so that we can have experiences of the Risen Christ. This Spirit cannot be denied. It is a gift beyond anything we can imagine. It is with that gift that we will have the strength to weather our days to come in refreshing and new ways. I invite you to recognize joy where you can. It's still out there. Often it comes out of us and pours out onto someone without our recognizing it. Stay kind. Look for the good. Help where we can. Love. And then love some more. We are here together, holding each other up, celebrating retirements and graduations and new jobs and positive health changes. And we are here together to share in the suffering of our world, to lighten the load and have an impact.
Life is constantly happening. The future is always right around the corner. We are the church and we are not closed. Our work continues with joy!
Hello Bethany friends,
As I write this on April 28th the local news has just told us that the Shelter in Place order will extend through the month of May. This means that by the next time I write a letter for this monthly page, we will have been quarantined, locked down, staying at home, not gathering for 30 more days.
I can’t say that I like this news. But I can say that I think this is the right news.
As we all try to find ways to cope these days I want to remind us that we are children of God and therefore are born with inherent worth. It may be that the changes we have had to make while we shelter in place have affected us in more than one way. We may have made changes to our lives that affect our finances, our work, our daily activities, and all of these things may make us doubt our own self worth or value. Our very identity is being changed by what we are being asked to do. Some of us thrive with such a challenge, and find new ways to be our best selves and meet the daily ever changing routines of our days. We love to engage with our families and our friends in new ways and we love to find new opportunities to find meaning with those that we love and the things that we do. We constantly find ways to contribute. Others of us go into a panic at the first sign of change and if a great deal of our lives changes all at once it’s beyond our ability to cope. Wherever we fall on that spectrum there is no denying the fact that we are social creatures. Without our usual methods of meeting our social needs much of what we do to take care of ourselves is not available.
There’s no doubt that much has changed. I want to remind us of what is the same. God will never stop finding new ways to get our attention. God will never stop living in our hearts. God will never stop listening to our greatest joys and our greatest fears. We believe in God of the trinity, whose three persons are our constant companions. As comforting as it is to know that God is right here on earth with us, it is equally comforting to know that nothing on earth that may limit us, can limit God.
continued 1 God will never stop calling us no matter how our daily lives and activities change. There are no limits or boundaries to how God values us and uses us. If we are not able to live our lives the way we have in the past – if our employment changes, our families change, we are not able to connect to others in person, we are not able to offer ourselves to help in the same ways anymore, God will still work with what we can do. Our limits given to us by laws, rules, safety choices, pandemic stresses and required behaviors, are not limiting to God .
As we wonder what we are being called to in these times, I invite you to print the page attached to this W@B email titled “God Calls Me", and use some time to be creative and color the words.
Please stay safe, stay home, and ask for help. As always, I want to learn more about how I and/or Bethany can meet your needs and bring you joy. I encourage you to call the office at 650-589- 3711 or reach out to me at firstname.lastname@example.org for any reason.
Blessings, Pastor Deb
Warm greetings to all of you,
Did you know that you can purchase caterpillar kits on Amazon? I’m banging my hand against my head in disbelief. A pastor I know did this and almost everyone in her congregation is watching a caterpillar grow during Lent and it’s a big hit, and a fabulous hands on way to experience all of lent and waiting, and the emergence of a new life.
I wonder what would happen if the caterpillar needed to remain in the chrysalis longer than usual? Waiting and reflecting on the inner life is great in theory, and certainly even something to do more often than most of us do. But when waiting goes beyond theory and we are forced to rely on within longer than usual, it is disorienting and can be scary.
I am very lucky. I have the perfect job. I am not only allowed, but encouraged to reach out to people, stick my nose in their business, because in my role as your pastor I may have something to give. I am lucky because I have someplace to focus all of my helpless feelings. I am staying home except for essential services. But part of my essential work is you, and for that I am blessed. Sometimes after a pastoral call, I realize that the person has been a huge gift to me with their presence and with their stories of how you care for one another. I was recently checking on several folks to be sure they were connected. The first person I called had already been in regular recent contact with a few of the people on my list. I left the call reminded that the Church is one body. I am the pastor but we are all ministers. I give thanks for you.
I want to remind you that your love and care for others is still alive and well, and you too have a role where you have something unique to give. Think about who you love and where they are, and if they are far, recognize the heartache of being away. And if the people in your life are near, I give thanks. I hope with you that all of this restraint from contact is temporary. God is a life-giving creative God who will help us through this. God will put people and ideas in our life that will work for good through all of us. Lazarus was raised from the dead, into the abundance of his life. But with the resurrection of Jesus, new life was to a completely new way of being. We will be raised from our current worries and anxieties into a new world with new ways of being together, and new ways to care for others, and with any luck, a more gentle world. It’s up to us.
Please stay safe, stay home, and ask for help.
As always, I want to learn more about how I and/or Bethany can meet your needs and bring you joy. I encourage you to call the office at (650) 589-3711 or reach out to me at for any reason.
Blessings, Pastor Deb
As I head into my third month here at Bethany, I’m looking forward to sharing the season of Lent with you. I’ve enjoyed getting to know some of you more and more. I’m hoping to continue to meet folks I’ve never met before and discover who you are. I want to learn more about how I and/or Bethany can meet your needs and bring you joy. I encourage you to call the office or reach out to me at email@example.com for any reason.
While Lent is not one of the most upbeat seasons of the church year it can be one of the richest. Lent has been described as one giant waiting period. Lent is traditionally a time when people of faith remember the suffering of Jesus. We’re reminded that we came from dust and we will return to dust, and that Jesus died for us. Many people spend the season of Lent in long periods of self- flagellation and misery. I would suggest that we buck that tradition, and look instead to the suffering of Jesus as a sign of hope for us, that Jesus shared what happens in our lives. Jesus died for us but it is not our fault or our sin that caused Jesus to die. Lent is not a time for guilt and more suffering. It’s a time to be aware that our suffering happened even to Jesus. It’s a time for self reflection and reflection as a community to possibly discover where we can do more, or where we can do something different. It’s always a good thing to look for ways to give up bad habits, or stop doing something you love for a time to see how it feels to do without. But rather than make Lent something that we only do for a season, let’s look for what can we do in Lent that becomes a part of our new way of life. Lent as a period of waiting can lead to heartfelt generosity toward ourselves and others for a lifetime.
Contemplation of suffering is not a bad thing or a sad thing necessarily. Suffering happens all the time, and I would hope that we wouldn’t look for ways to add to that part of our lives. But rather, find a depth to ourselves that only comes from serious tugs at our hearts. I once had a caterpillar in my room in college that I kept in a round globe-like dish with a stick and milkweed. I loved to watch it crawling on the stick, or see that it had eaten some greens. I watched it all the way through the cocoon time and it was amazing to see the butterfly wings unfold and watch it take off! What was equally amazing was just before the cocoon was being built, everything was so still. The caterpillar didn’t move for days. Then he hung from the middle of the stick and was still for days. It was if there was silence before the silence. That’s Lent to me. It’s the opportunity to prepare. We can even prepare to wait.
I hope you find your way through the season of Lent with your Bethany community; beginning with Ash Sunday on March 1st, through every Tuesday night Lenten study on the Lord’s Prayer, and continuing into April as we get closer and closer to Easter. Let us live these pre-Easter days with each other, and with a deep search for our own Lenten story.
Blessings, Pastor Deb